Finding Clarity

Fresh Thinking, Inspiration, and Vision on the Process of Spiritual Transformation

It has been said that one of the simplest acts of leadership is to clearly offer love and support to another person. A metaphor for that is to offer them a clear glass of water. In the world of spiritual pursuits, a person may come to the conclusion that all that is needed is love. There are songs written about that! What I have discovered is that love without truth doesn’t quench a person’s thirst. And truth without love can bludgeon a person. Truth without love can end up being more about information or judgment. I have had numerous occasions where I have been bludgeoned by someone’s opinions or judgments. They believed what they said was the truth because they had deep feeling about the issue. How do we sort out the expression of love and truth in the midst of our experience and our feelings? I believe the first step is to be honest that there is work to do to get clear in your expression.

I’m not dismissing critical thinking, and I’m not dismissing people having their view. But how interested are you in bringing your view as a clear glass of water? It is necessary to have a place to go when you aren’t clear, a place where you could feel what’s going on for you, see it, and clean it up before it is spoken in a conversation or typed words. This could be done with someone not involved in the situation. Or perhaps by being clear up front—“I want to say something and I don’t do this very well. I think it’s important and I might trip over my own words. Can I share this with you, even though I may be stumbling?”

I sometimes write e-mails that initially are accompanied by a feeling of anger. I’m sure nobody else has that experience… I’m sure many people have written things and then decided not to send them. I’m also interested in writing them and reviewing them to get them as clean as possible, because the communication may be important, but the anger may result in the communication not working. Have you found that to be true? All those e-mails do is to deliver the anger, and then the opportunity is gone.

So I will often write them and then run them by somebody who is a lot nicer than I am, and ask, “Would you read this and see if I made my point?” And they may say, “Oh, no—don’t do it, don’t do it! Did you want to start a battle?” At times I feel like the anger is the most important thing, and not the message. I’ll feel better if I let it out, but what kind of blessing will I have extended? What kind of field will be left for me, in which I can create? What I haven’t given is a clear glass of water. A clear glass of water may have correction in it, but it’s still clear. It’s still connected to the highest thing and the most loving thing I know. It is not just the truth; it is the truth of love.

We’ve been speaking about “pathological self-concern.” I love the honesty of that phrase, because when I write those e-mails that are really angry, they’re filled with pathological self-concern. They’re filled with me feeling better about telling someone off than the creative opportunity in front of me. The idea is to get beyond my self-concern to what’s at issue, what’s God’s interest, what’s the highest interest, what’s the greatest blessing? How is it that I can serve with you? It’s not easy to serve with someone who’s angry at you, or someone who’s just upset that things didn’t go the way they wanted. Why would anyone want to do that?

There are creative ways to be actively concerned about our communication. I know people who deliberately review things after an event, asking the question “How did that go?” Did we get where we wanted to go? Did we do the best we could? What did we miss?

With people who are awakening spiritually around the world, we are interested in doing something together in a clear and blessed way, a conscious way. If that is our interest personally, we are choosing to be part of a select group of people—people who bring spiritual awakening to the world. We are interested in paying attention to what we perceive individually and what we perceive together. How do your vision and my vision make each other’s vision clearer, make our blessing more powerful, and make the magic more possible? There are times when we are in a dark place, and we can’t find a clear way out. There’s a lot of power and leverage in those times, because there are very few people who will continue to say yes when they feel like that. Who else will ask for help to be clear and loving? Your loving and truthful voice hasn’t gone anywhere. It is always present. We can assist each other to see and hear clearly, to remember our true voice.

There are ill spirits that may try to convince you otherwise. At those times it is important to increase your exposure to the healthy ones. Surround yourself with the select group of friends who care about quenching your thirst and the thirst of this world with a generous drink of love and truth.

Jane Anetrini
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Staush Jankowski
Staush Jankowski
March 7, 2011 11:07 pm

Hello Jane: There is the feeling with all people at times that there is so much to know, so much to experience and so little time: “If only I had more time, more brains, a better body, a healthier genetic makeup in order to fulfill my dreams. .!” This perspective, given the longevity of humans in general at this time, would seem idyllic and fanciful. However, people are discovering that their lives could be much larger than has been imagined, or thought of to this point and understood to date. It is a deep-rooted sense that not too many people know exactly what to do about their relationship to what’s around them, let alone in relationship to another. . . all sense of control is illusive. The lines of knowing are being questioned and increasingly blurry in how to handle anything or anyone, because those lines are lines of limitations that have been set by their owners. They are being challenged by the dawning awareness of day-to-day comings and goings.
What is occurring in consciousness, right here with me—which is being made evident is awareness of a real opportunity in front of everyone, no matter who they are. A diligent, watchful conscious application of attention to the quality of thinking and feeling moment to moment, or more accurately, NOW, is dawning in people’s consciousnesses.
When we begin to care about this “house”— meaning my body, mind and heart we’ve been occupying all these years here within and as ourselves—we begin to take note of a sense of expanse within our beings. Now, . . it’s all fine and well to be aware of why personal and global circumstances are consistently swirling out of control, or even why they’re getting worse, why so-and-so may be behaving the way they do, and where the next cool thing is emerging to revolutionize mankind’s attempt at grasping more power— but this is all “café talk”. For the most part, what is being imparted with another in dialogue depends substantially on the awareness of who is talking. What is missing from “everyday” conversation is the “process” which people are not aware of, or care enough about, given where mankind has been residing all these centuries to consider the [obvious to us] alternative.
The perpetually, nagging, deep-seated, “black hole” within every individual is primarily due to one reason. The truth relative to ourselves and everything since childhood has been severely compromised to the point of invisibility. That may seem like too simplistic a statement, however, the fact that mankind behaves accordingly proves it. Our capacities of trust and listening have been placed in the wrong places of understanding. What has been ignored throughout our existing years is the belief that being half a person is “good enough” to get through the day. Would we be daring enough to say, “my whole-hearted intent is to be wholly immersed in listening and responding only to what is sensed as the highest of thought and feeling– God’s Will? Everything else does not matter. Everything else is less than my highest aspiration. Everyone else has their own business with which to attend, and I am not going to focus on anyone else’s problems.”
While these statements seem like blasphemous, dichotomous, or even heartless to say, it points to the truth that mankind does not have what they “want??” to be happy, because even if they were to get what they ‘want’; it would not assuage the sense of truly having what they know deep in their soul remains untouched. The “I want” syndrome has never worked, because it only acknowledges the fact of staying stuck and expending a mightful of energy preventing any individual from knowing the truth. Creation works with a united front, not a divided order. Wanting only implies a static state of heart and mind.
My body, mind and heart must be wholly involved in unification of captive intent, if I (or my soul) is ever to know what the “perceptions of a larger part of me” is all about. The workings of being are direct, and it is about me, but in the right context. I don’t “want” anything, because I don’t need to want anything. There is only gratefulness for acknowledging what I presently see or have and may not see that I do have. . . yet.
I love who you are and especially what you represent of the holiness of All That Is. Thank you for your expressive unrelenting passion for allowing more to surface within consciousness, and with that the opportunity for others to feel the safety you exemplify.

Much Love,

Martin Esapa
Martin Esapa
March 3, 2011 8:53 am

Thanks for this rich Pulse of Spirit, “Finding Clarity.” I have several times had the experience of writing something out of anger. Truly, it ends up exposing my spiritual weakness, and later on embarrassing my conscience.

I have been reminded of one thing: not to be carried away by emotions, but to be myself in any given situation.

Glory be to God and my care.

Esapa Martin (Yaounde, Cameroon )

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